gonna start this section off with a little baby caveat:

so much of this wedding is non-traditional. our intention for the day is to gather with our loved ones to celebrate the next step on this lifelong partnership that we’re building together. none of that requires gifts of any kind.

below, you’re going to see some traditional registry stuff that was somewhat stubbornly requested by our families (rightfully so, we hear you Mamas). in the vein of protecting other intentions regarding consumption in our lives, we are only asking for things we don’t have or things that need replacing after a decade of use in NYC. we would also happily accept donations to our travel fund so we can take a much-needed vacation (our first!) to Tokyo/Kyoto/Osaka in fall of 2025.

you’re also going to see a place below to donate to organizations that are near & dear to us, that we have either been long time supporters of or have recently championed in the wake of the world (both large & small) that we live in. if you are feeling like you want to give, but a vacuum feels wrong, please consider giving an amount you feel comfortable with to one of the three organizations listed on the linktree.

we really do have everything we need, the best present you could give us is your presence on April 5th, so we can smile at your beautiful faces & see you smiling back at us.

<3 Conor & Hawley